I had this same issue a few months ago: my RAV failed to charge with all other systems being ok. 90% of the time, it is one of the internal fuses that has blown. However, just like you, the fuses in my charger ended up testing fine.
Rather than try to track down the defective component in my charger, I just grabbed one of the spare gen 1 Tesla chargers I had on hand, swapped the control board out of the RAV OBC over to the Tesla OBC, re-installed and all is good.
My recommendation for you: grab a gen 1 Tesla charger from eBay or your favorite auto parts recycler, and either re-flash the unit to be RAV-compatible via the TPD software, or (simpler) move over the control board from your current RAB OBC. Alternatively, I have a few tested gen 1 OBCs that I can sell/ship you one that's been re-flashed; PM for more info.